Sexual Positions For Overweight People
While men who are overweight can enjoy sex just as much as the next guy, it seems that the feat is not always as simple as it sounds. Certain sex positions aren’t very fulfilling and may make for awkward moments, so today’s tip is dedicated to the horizontally challenged, but horny nevertheless.
First off, it’s very important to have good stamina because sex is not a spectator sport. You have to be ready to delve into the act with your heart, soul and big-boned body. Don’t just lay there, always keep yourself involved — unless of course, she’s the dominant type and wants you to submit to her (yum).
The following are not exactly mind-blowing positions that’ll make your head spin, but they are good for curing what ails you (pending orgasm). So grab your woman and start riding the wave. Also keep in mind that these positions are good for those of any size.
pillows are your friend
Missionary, as I’ve already discussed, is not exactly the cream of the crop when it comes to the greatest sexual positions, but it does its duty for lovers everywhere when necessary. There is a catch for the overweight folks; you’re going to need some pillows.
Obviously, the amount of pillows you’ll need depends on how overweight you and your lover are. Place a couple of pillows under your woman’s buttocks until her vagina is at an angle where penetration is made easy.
In a kneeling position, balance on your hands and do your duty as a man. Take things slowly and rub her body whilst doing so. The idea here is to make this very pleasurable rather than chore-like. This position is great no matter what size you are — unless of course you weigh so much that you can’t walk to the fridge without getting winded.
the ultimate move
For creativity and a different angle on things (that’s right, I said it), here’s a novel position that’ll have her juicing from the get-go. Keep in mind that variety is great when it comes to bedroom antics, so keep the ideas, among other things, coming.
Get your woman to lie on her side in a fetal-like position (on her side with knees bent). Again, pillows are your friend; use them sparingly. Place a few of them under her hip and before jumping into the goods, kiss and stroke her body first. But if the pillows make her uncomfortable, then don’t use them.
Now, you should be kneeling like you would if you were going in the doggy way. For variety, you can lift one of her legs and place it on your shoulder. Once you get the gist of it, this can be the greatest position you’ve ever discovered.
let her top that
Perhaps having her on top of you would be somewhat hard considering you might both have big tummies, but there is still a way around this. This time, you can place a couple of pillows under your own butt and she can take her designated mark.
While on top, she should lean back and place her weight on her hands whilst using her feet to motion herself up and down on your hot rod. Once you achieve a rhythmic coordination, you’ll wonder why you didn’t let her do this from the start!
As well, she can ride you in the reverse way; you can bend your knees and she can simply turn around, and voilà. She’s better off squatting in this position, but because it requires very strong legs, perhaps she can just grind her body back and forth against your member. This is great for clitoral stimulation.
For variety, lift her legs up and place them on your shoulders whilst in the missionary position. Again, you can use the pillows, or you can simply elevate her until her butt is barely touching the bed (strong like bull). Do whatever feels more comfortable since you’re going to be in the said position for a little while.
As well, ensure that she’s comfortable and not struggling or trying her best to avoid placing her weight on you. Through her body language, you’ll be able to tell if she’s enjoying it or feels like she’s about to pull a hamstring.
While penetrating her, rub her legs gently and slowly grind in and out. Turn your head to the side and kiss her ankles, hold on to her thighs, or lift her butt with your hands whilst doing your sexy thing.
the woof appeal
You knew this one was coming, and I know you’re happy to see it here. That’s right; the infamous doggy style is for people of all shapes and sizes, although certain body types may still not be able to pull this one off.
If you have a potbelly that’s tight and reaches all the way down to your lower abdomen, then perhaps the aforementioned positions will be better suited for you. But if your beer belly is mushy and moveable, then turn her around and get cracking.
Place your partner on all fours, and before you let yourself go wild, take the time to caress her back and reach underneath to caress her breasts. Appreciate her body and then go in for the kill. Place your little man inside her and embrace her lower cheeks — and hey, if she’s up for it, give her a little spank for her spunk.
plenty of fun for all
There are plenty of things for lovers to do, the key is to keep the ideas fresh as often as possible. Don’t be afraid to try new things; that’s the only way you’ll figure out what you love. And hey, if you’re comfortable enough to engage in sex, then you should be comfortable enough to discuss what you enjoy about it.
And there you have it; some easy ways to keep her satisfied and get a little satisfaction of your own at the same time. Until next time, enjoy that big butt.